About Marriages Problem Solving

Why come out with this title?

I believe due to the pandemic, our life trend is changing and more problem and unhappy people is getting more and more. Especially married people with toddlers at house. Depressed because tired, maybe our brain iron not enough or maybe argument is not solving.

I had wrote this article because the Laura channel, they try to talk with DR.AMEN (married consultant and I figure out, the same problem and my husband was facing and I try to figure out the solution about the married problem. Thank you LAURA is been funny all the time and share to us how to solve the marriage problem.

Working over time is the worst ever thing

a lot workaholics can be destroy you married and getting divorce because of the TOXIC mindset

Question :“ successful people do not take day off”

Answer： ITS ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE

Being working balance its a much more important in one family especially your child only a toddle, you kids will grow up without your care and last, you will become invisible for them. Not only your kid and you partner which is needed more care, love and being respect to each other. If continue work in not balance way, end up you will disconnected with you family and become stupidly unhappy.

REMEMBER THIS WORD — “HAPPINESS IS CAME FROM BALANCE”

RESOLVE THE PROBLEM –

Meeting & wrote in the paper

Happiness is the moral obligation because you are with someone that is look “unhappy“its chronically stressful and anxiety. Learning from mistake, I believe all guy will did the same thing especially married guy, when come to argument, Men try to avoid from talking and keep ignore women, women brain is try to solve the problem and men try to avoid, end up the PROBLEM is never ending. PROBLEM did not solve, argument fall back again, fighting over and over never ending until women getting tired end up spoil entire family relationship and getting DIVORCE. So how to Resolve the problem, we had to figure out what we argue and what make me so depressed, both of us list it in the paper and find the solution and before sleeping, you can have a meeting with you partner, try to solve it and your wife will not getting anxiety, depressed and have a bad thought such as suicide.

Example of the small matter argument

I have listen that LAURA say that BECAUSE OF THE PASTA SAUCE is a small matter that can be argue for many time. FROM THE DR PERSPECTIVE, when dad trying to cook for his son but eventually his son say not enough pasta sauce, and mum come and trying to help but dad is getting frustrated without any signal, From Dad perspective : “why I am so useless and need women help and started angry him self”, but women perspective just trying to help and feel like why he angry to me, why I am just trying to help what wrong with you and argument started. Other example her husband was a workaholics, and no time to accompanied his son and wife started getting sad, this cases same as me, but I wont argue IN front of my daughter and night only will say out if I still remember.